Festive Decorating at Lila Bailey HQ

Festive Decorating at Lila Bailey HQ

FESTIVE DECORATING AT LILA BAILEY HQ

It’s the most wonderful time of the year… (It really really is!). I absolutely love Christmas (just in case you hadn’t noticed). Not just Christmas Day either, I love the whole build up from late November right through to celebrating New Year and all the festivities in between. One of the first things I do to feel christmassy is stick a rocking Christmas playlist on and decorate! Last year was our very first Christmas in our own home which made it was super super special, but this year is even better because we’ve finally got our flat pretty much how we want it (more to come on that later…), so it feels even more like home.

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Festive decorating is an all-day event, starting with purchasing & decorating the Christmas tree (video below), followed by decorating the rest of the house! Because of our living room & kitchen colour schemes, I stick with a simple ‘red & white’ theme for the tree as it ties the whole room together as one.

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I don’t like to go OTT with Christmas decor as there is a fine line between beautifully festive and superbly tacky… I stick with a few go-to additions, including (a lot of) festive bunting, christmas blankets (as sofa accessories, naturally), jars of candy canes, handmade decorative stockings, ornamental hanging things (the technical term…), and lots (and lots) of candles. There is always a place for a small amount of tinsel (on the television, for example) but I don’t like too much as I do think it can really cheapen the look of a room.

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As I work from home, making sure my house is festively decorated is an essential part of my ability to focus during this period… (It is, honest!).

 

The Finishing Touch

To me, it’s just not Christmas without a wreath on the front door! Luckily, one of my very good friends happens to be a florist (handy) and runs Christmas wreath making workshops throughout early December. This year her & I had a one-to-one wreath making (and coffee drinking, gossiping) session and this was the result!

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It brightens up the hallway and brings a bit of festive cheer as soon as you walk through the door!

 

Links

Below is our Christmas tree expedition in video form, and also a link to Kat’s (florist friend) beautiful website…

 

Milli Fleur

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Wedding Fayres; the good, the bad, the ugly #1

Wedding Fayres; the good, the bad, the ugly #1

Wedding Fayres; the good, the bad; the ugly #1

 

I recently embarked on my very first experience of exhibiting at a wedding fayre with my own little company. I’ve visited wedding fayres in the past as a “bride” (pretend bride as I’m not actually engaged), and I’ve also exhibited at trade fairs with my parents’ company, but this was Lila Bailey’s debut.

I was terrified.

Because wedding planning isn’t a physical product, I was essentially selling myself (get your mind out of the gutter…), and this is something that – especially for me – takes a whole lot of courage. Although I have a huge amount of confidence in my ability and I know that I can do it, when it comes to telling people I can do it I seize up and just wish someone else could tell them for me. I hate talking about myself and my achievements, and I especially hate ‘bigging’ myself up. Whenever I see or hear anyone bragging about themselves I find it super cringey, awkward, and embarrassing (for them more than me) so when people said to me ‘you’ve just got to let people know how great you are’ I felt like holding up a big fat ‘NO’ sign. But, as I discovered, there’s a way to do it that isn’t cringey, awkward, or embarrassing. The trick is to be open, honest, and – most importantly – yourself.

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Wedding fayre #1; Exeter Racecourse

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I originally booked the Bailbrook House wedding fayre in Bath first, and then came across the Exeter Racecourse fayre which happened to be the weekend before. Because the Bath wedding fayre was the bigger one, and would therefore be a bigger deal for me, I thought it would be good to experience one beforehand to ‘break the ice’ so to speak. And I am so glad I did! I was insanely nervous and really wasn’t sure exactly what to do/how to talk to people, so Euan and I decided this would be the ‘tester’ fayre to see what needs improving ahead of the next one.

The two main things I discovered were…

  1. Despite thinking having your stand right by the entrance is a good idea, it’s not.
  2. Always have something in your hand to give to people. It’s a conversation starter and something for them to take away to remind them of your company.

 

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At the Exeter fayre, we arrived super early (much earlier than we needed to) and I chose a table which was pretty much the first table you saw when you walked in. I thought this would be great because people would come straight over, but what I didn’t realise was that most attendees were pretty nervous themselves and didn’t actually know what to do or where to go, so just walked around and didn’t talk to at least the first two stands. They would eventually come back round again and speak to me then, but by that time they were getting a little bored and tired, and (particularly the grooms) probably just wanted to go home!

I had got some postcard size cards printed to hand out to people, but a couple of weeks before the fayre the organisers emailed to say we could put leaflets in the attendees goody-bags, so I decided to allocate the postcards to them instead. Although putting the postcards in the bags meant that every attendee went home with one, it did mean that I had nothing to offer them when they came to speak to me, and I figured that brides and grooms were having so many conversations with so many different people, if you didn’t actually physically give them any material then they may not remember the conversation they had with me once they were home.

However, as we had discussed, this was just my ‘tester’ wedding fayre and it was the perfect opportunity for me to make a couple of changes for the next one. It was also my introduction into the world of vlogging! Which is super exciting. Here is the Exeter wedding fayre vlog… enjoy!

 

Keep your eyes peeled for the second blog post about the Bath wedding fayre… and don’t forget to subscribe to my youtube channel (many more vlogs to come!).