Possibly every bride’s favourite thing about their wedding… the wedding dress. Because of my background of wedding dresses galore, I always knew this might be one of my hardest tasks. But, I was prepared for that and it’s not stopped me from enjoying the journey!
Wedding Dress – Where I’m up to (Part 1)
So I have indeed found my dress. Well, sort of!
I’ve always thought I’d design my own wedding dress. I think growing up around wedding dress designers gave me that inspiration. But whatever it was, when it came to actually shopping for my dress it only became more apparent that I really did want to create my own dress.
I’m lucky enough to know Alan & Marguerite, aka the wedding dress designers ‘Alan Hannah’, from working in the industry. British made wedding dresses (or anything for that matter) are – in my opinion – a must, so who better to go to than a company who designs & makes their dresses in London? Before I got in contact with Alan Hannah I thought I’d find a shop or two stocking their dresses so I could try a couple on. This meant I could go to Alan Hannah with a good idea of the fabrics & fit etc of their dresses, and go from there (I could get quite technical but I won’t bore you, for now…).
Wedding Dress – Where I’m up to (Part 2)
During my search, I found ‘Olivia Hooper’ located about 1hr 45mins from me. This was perfect, and I loved the look of the shop so my mum & I went on a girlie day trip one Saturday. And wow, what an amazing turn of fate! Naomi took my appointment and she totally got what I was trying to say. After a good few hours, we had sketched the dress design I had in my head and made a rough appointment for getting my measurements done in the new year. Naomi has worked with Alan & Marguerite for 25 years so she knew they’d be able to create my dress from scratch, just like I had always dreamed!
I’ve now had my measurements taken and my design will be coming to life at the Alan Hannah HQ over the next month or two. I’ll have two calico fittings (basically mock-up drafts of the dress, but in a basic fabric), before the real thing gets made early next year. Eeek! Because I’ve never actually seen my dress in the flesh it’s quite a scary process, but I have sooooo much faith in Naomi & Sarah at Olivia Hooper, and the whole team at Alan Hannah, so I know it’s going to be okay.
Wedding Dress – Shops to visit?
I trekked to a lot of bridal shops (despite never intending to do so!), but it was surprisingly hard to find shops that are actually worth going to. Everyone is different, and will be looking for a different type of dress and/or experience. However, if you do want a lovely trip to a gorgeous bridal shop then below are my recommendations!
Pirouette, Exeter – one of the shops I’ve previously worked in. And it is lovely. A stunning medieval building filled with beautiful dresses from 3-4 different designers. It’s an intimate shop so don’t bring many people with you!
Ellie Rose, Bath – I had the most fabulous appointment at this magic little shop. Super close to the Royal Crescent, and stocking New York designers (including Hayley Paige). Highly recommend!
The Bridal House of Cornwall, Truro – the definition of an experience. I had the best day at this bridal shop, partly because it was the day I asked my bestie to be my bridesmaid. But also because it’s such a wonderful shop with lovely staff who were so enthusiastic & helpful. Plus you get to have a little photo sesh at the end! What’s not to love?!
Olivia Hooper, Wedmore – and of course, the bridal shop to end all bridal shops. Olivia Hopper! A perfect & pristine bridal shop with only the best of British Bridal Designers. Expertise is invaluable, which is what makes this shop even more amazing. I would recommend no shop more than this one
Wedding Dress Shopping – Top Tips?
Oh how I could go on (and on, and on) about wedding dresses and all the advice I’d give. But I won’t. Instead I’ve picked a handful of my top, top tips!
- Do your research, but don’t limit yourself. Easy, right? What I mean is search for designers/dresses and find a limited few that you like. Because if you have no idea at all it’s going to be a hard process for both you and the bridal shops you visit! Having said that, still keep an open mind because you never know what you might actually fall in love with.
- Don’t try on too many dresses. The worst thing you can do is try on so many dresses that your mind starts to explode. By all mean try on different styles, but once you know what you like don’t waste time trying on things you know you won’t fall in love with.
- Don’t take a huge entourage. I know everyone wants to be involved, and the thought of having everyone squealing around you might seem super cute. It’s not. In fact, it’s usually unhelpful and dampens your experience. I only ever took 1-2 people with me and it was the best decision I made! A lot of bridal shops are catching onto that now and don’t let you bring too many people. So don’t be alarmed if that happens, it’s for your own good.
- Following on from that, listen to your bridal stylist. Especially if they really do know what they’re doing. These women see brides-to-be trying on dresses every day, so they know how it works. They know what shapes, necklines, and fabrics will best suit your body. And at the end of the day they’re there to help you find the dress of your dreams, so don’t dismiss what they have to say.
I honestly could go on for hours about wedding dress shopping tips, but I think I’d say those are my 4 main ones. If you’re struggling with your dress and want some advice, by all means give me a buzz or comment below!
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